Parenting expert: 56 books that will teach your kids about compassion, race and social justice

Kids need to see themselves reflected in what they read. add to their understanding of how they view themselves. It also helps them explore the world, and how they want to interact with it.

As a coach who teaches how to raise compassionate, anti-racist and justice-minded kids, I encourage parents to choose books for their kids that can spark important conversations.

To get started, I've compiled a list of books for different age levels that deal with seven key social justice themes: belonging, anti-racism, reflection, open dialogue, compassion, social justice engagement and self-advocacy.

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  • "Hair Love" by Matthew A. Cherry
    A Black daddy learns to style his Black daughter's gorgeous curly hair, teaching self-confidence and self-love.
  • "I Am Enough" by Grace Byers
    We all want to raise who are self-confident and who know that they are worthy. This is a great book to begin the journey of self-acceptance and self-love.

  • "Penny and the Magic Puffballs" by Alonda Williams
    Penny doesn't like her natural, curly hair. But in this adventurous series, Penny learns to use what makes her different, her magical puffballs, as a source of her inner magic.
  • "Change Sings" by Amanda Gorman
    The first picture book from youth poet laureate Amanda Gorman focuses on the importance of using your voice.

  • "The Undefeated" by Kwame Alexander
    This poem represents the perseverance and fortitude of African American heroes throughout history. 
  • "Weird!: A Story About Dealing with Bullying in Schools" by Erin Frankel
    Young Luisa is called "weird" by her classmate Sam when she is just being herself. We what happens as Luisa is supported by her peers to stand up to Sam

  • "Brown Girl Dreaming" by Jacqueline Woodson
    In powerful autobiographic prose, Woodson describes her childhood and growing up Black in America, offering young readers the opportunity to see what it means to fight for justice and equality.
  • "Watch Us Rise" by Renée Watson and Ellen Hagan
    Jasmine and Chelsea start a Women's Rights Club in their progressive high school, and fight back against their trolls and their principal.